I know I usually just write about coupons and getting great
deals, But today I want to write about something that is really important to
me. Bullying is something that gets me all worked up and when the school does
not do anything to help it makes me even madder.
I have a daughter who is 11 and now in 6th grade.
Since last year when she started 5th grade a group of girls have
been bullying her to the point that she made her depressed, at which point I started
taking her to therapy. I went to the school and got no help at all I even went
to administrative offices for help. All year I got no help at all, the
principal even tried to turn it around and blame it on my daughter. I have to
mention that my daughter is not like most kids her age she has ADHD and suffers
from emotional problems, she is a great kid and pretty much controls herself
the best she can. These kids do not understand how why she is different or how
to deal with a person with a disability. They used her differences to make her
feel so bad about herself. I even went to the principal and explained to him
that there are too many kids committing suicide because of bullying for him to
just ignore the situation. I let him know that I am a parent that will fight as
long as I have to for my children. I fought all school year but got no help,
once the school year was over I was happy that she would be going on to middle
school and I hoped that these girls would back off. As soon as the new school
year started the bullying started up again as well. Part of me thought it was
because they were jealous because I always make sure that my kids have nice
clothes and with the way I save money and know how to shop on a small budget I always
get them nice clothes. Once the bullying started again I went straight to the principal
at this school and again now help.
I know that almost every school has a so-called zero tolerance
when it comes to bullying, but I feel a lot of the principals are not holding
up to stopping the bullying. I know that I am not the only parent right now
dealing with this and I wanted to share my story so that I can give you parents
the courage to fight for your kids. I went to the school board and the superintendent
and called every day and fought every day. Today I finally got a meeting with
the superintendent and told her everything that my kids had been through. One
other thing that bothered me was that our school was the lowest scoring school
in the district. I didn’t want my kids to deal with not only bullying but also
not getting the best education. At the end of my meeting the superintendent let
me transfer my children to the highest scoring school in the district and the
school that really deals with bullying.
If you are a parent dealing with this and can’t afford to
just up and move or to put your kids in private schools like me then I want you
to fight and fight as hard as you can. Go to the school board meetings, call
the school superintendent every day if you have to but get the help that your
kids need. If you are a parent of a kid that does not get bullied please take
the time and teach your children that not all the kids are the same and some of
them have serious issues. Our children
need to learn how to deal and accept children with special needs.
Thank you for reading my story and if you need any help or
information please feel free to contact me.
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